A dear reader, Kimberly, asked: Any advice on starting the homeschool routine for the first time? For us, it’s kindergarten so our first “school” day routine ever! I’m wondering how to make the transition from six years of all day, all play!
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Oh how exciting Kimberly! In all our years of starting little ones, we have found that we can do the ‘school work’ in about an hour. The important thing is to break the time into short increments: 15 minutes here, a fun break, fifteen minutes there, a snack. Later in the day – a read aloud in the afternoon or even at bedtime.
Just making the routine all a natural part of your day. Here is a simple run down of what a typical morning might look like for our preschooler and first grader. An example:
- We start with our Before 8:45 checklist. (You can just hang out here for a while!)
- Next, I sit in between our younger two and read the Rod & Staff Bible Stories to Read (while four-year-old colors in his accompanying Bible Stores to Color).
- First grader works on the Saxon 1st Grade math calendar (whatever math curriculum you use). A K/1st grader is always excited about getting to ‘do school.’
- When preschooler finishes up his Bible coloring, he might join in math time, playing with the math manipulatives first grader and I are using. We finish up the math lesson for the day.
- Preschooler enjoys one page of a Rod and Staff workbook. (He loves Samuel and Sarah and is practicing drawing lines, beginning at the start dot).
- {Here we might take a break.}
- Then we do some short phonics practice. Alphaphonics for preschooler. Explode the Code or Spelling Workout with first grader.
- Handwriting practice. Preschooler is practicing his name. First grader practices daily with Lighthome Publications Penmanship books.
- (All our Preschool and First Grade Curricula here including Five in a Row read alouds)
- Of course, our younger two join in short, age-appropriate doses the rest of the day. Especially nature study.
Just the Three Rs
Did you notice we only do Bible, along with math, phonics and handwriting? I strongly suggest that, at this age, you major in the 3 Rs – reading, writing and arithmetic. Go to the library and load up on books. Snuggle on the couch. Get outside. Others may offer different advice but that is what works best for us. I hope that helps. I share more detail on our routine – including what works with our little ones, in these posts:
- Helpful Homeschool Habits for Multiple Ages (with multiple links to more information on morning room time – the whole series is listed here)
- Helpful Habit: Little Ones First (beginning the school day with the youngest ones)
Morning Room Time Builds Skills for Learning Later
How do my younger two sit still or even begin to do the 3 Rs? Rewind to babies up to age four. May I say that the morning room time habit (whether it be in a bedroom or a corner of the family room or whatever works best for your family) truly builds the habit of focused learning. If a preschooler is practiced in a small amount of quiet, learning play, then he or she will understand, quite naturally, the next step of learning.
Even with my youngest, now age four, I continue to be amazed at how morning room time blesses us all. Just yesterday, we were all gathered around the table for lunch. I pulled out our ‘one more thing after lunch‘ which was Harmony Fine Arts. Littlest Guy stayed and sketched as long as he was interested – which was about five minutes, tops. That’s ok because guess what? He hopped down from the table, and sat in the floor with his cars. He rolled those cars close by. And he listened. He turned his little face upward and chimed in now and then. He listened and learned.
I looked down at him, sitting there rolling his cars and I had a flashback of morning room time when he was just a little over a year old.
The youngest are part of the action. And, yes, I am tired at the end of the day and there are sibling squabbles and plenty character training opportunities. But I am privileged to have them all together, constantly tweaking our routine to meet the needs of the age range. Etch it all in your memories, friends.
Do not stress if you find yourself with a four-year-old or kindergartener and did not practice morning room time. My best advice at this age and stage is above: short time increments and learning built into your day. Maybe afternoon quiet time might be the blessing at this age and stage.
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Tricia,
I just love the enthusiasm with which you embraced this question! Thank you for reminding me that it’s not drudgery to start a routine and that it will bless the whole family
Blessings!
Jennifer
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Thank you for your sweet comment Jennifer. My advice, if you are starting, is to pick one habit. One that you believe will bless your family the most. Work on one. Celebrate small successes! Work in small amounts of time.
And, of course, these young ones are learning along with the older ones all throughout the day…
I’m still unsure of how to start a homeschool routine after reading this. What is morning room time? What is a math calendar? Do you have an actual routine that you can post to give an example of what the day looks like?
Dear H, if I were to answer all of those in this one post, it would be rather long
Instead I have linked to further reading on each of the questions you ask. My Helpful Homeschool Habits for Multiple Ages, linked above, offers all that I have written on building the morning room time habit. The helpful habit: Little Ones First, linked above, shares how we begin with the younger ones and what our two little ones do each morning. Our Ten Parts of the Hodgepodge Homeschool Schedule speaks to what a typical day looks like for us all. Our Curricula may help you picture the tools we use: http://www.hodgepodge.me/2012/08/preschool-to-first-grade-curriculum-and-organization/ In the next few days I will be sharing A Day in the Life post… But let me say that each of these habits you can use to tailor your day – create what works best for you and your children. Start with one. (And a math calendar is simply one of the tools we use alongside Saxon 1st grade math). I truly hope this helps!
P.S. – I updated with a few more examples, thanks for your question!
Oh, the little ones are so sweet! I love their desks! These are great tips. Sticking with our schedule is something I am putting at the top of the priority list this year.
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Hi Tricia,
Tricia,
Thanks for this post, especially for the part about the littlest ones. I have a seven year old, a five year old, a 15 month old, and one on the way. We started school about two weeks ago and I am quickly figuring out that our little bundle of energy needs something to do that is just his own and not just his everyday toys.
I am thinking about putting together a box or bag of activities we just pull out during school time for him.
Thanks for the encouragement.
Blessings,
Yvana
I’d love to hear how you do it with all 5! I also have 5, ages 5-16.
Hey there fellow mama of 5 – we have just about the same ages! I’ll share with you two posts: http://www.hodgepodge.me/2012/07/ten-parts-of-the-hodgepodge-homeschool-schedule/ this is the basic structure of our day, listing all our habits. And then there’s the Day in the Life
http://www.hodgepodge.me/2012/08/a-day-in-the-life-at-hodgepodge/